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What should I do in this soap opera situation? Very F'd up so read at ur own risk..? | | Published by: jane 2009-01-07 |
| | Ok so here's the deal.. I had a boyfriend who treated me really bad, he cheated on me with several girls, I had his baby and he never helped me and always put his friends first, one day I got fed up and left him. I hooked up with his brother (who left his ex for me) and it broke there family up, his mom was on his side and his dad was on Jesse's (my ex) side, I fell in love with his brother and it was great, then I started getting hurt because there family always called me a slut and bad names, I was starting to talk to my ex again and he swore he would change and still loved me even though I slept with his brother.
I made his brother go home and told him that I couldn't be in a serious relationship, and it hurt his brother alot because he did love me so much, he was so sweet to me, and treated me like a queen, but I still had feelings for my ex.. Michael (his brother) finally got back with his ex and when he told me over the phone while he was at work, we both broke down crying on the phone like a romantic novel, we told each other we loved each other and wished it didn't turn out this way..
I even made him a video on youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YS1viUEgk...
It hurt me so much because his ex was so mean, she tried to stab him b4 and he thought of me as his savor.
So we decided to wait and see what happens he promised me they were just friends for now but he has to take care of her because she has no where to go he told me he would never lie to me and he would tell me if they decide to get together, so he swore to not sleep with her and I swore I would not sleep with my ex and we will wait for eachother..
Here's my confession I am waiting for him and I'm not going to sleep with anyone but I kind of told my ex we would work out..
My question is.... Should I just be with my ex again and let him be with his, because he does still love her, I could never forget what me and Michael (his brother) had it was truly an amzing spark but I was so selfish and this is kind of what I get.
I no this is very long and I'm sure you don't want to answer but I really wanna here someone elses opinion besides my own because I have no one else to go too...please help =[
It's kind of disturbing that you are going back and forth in sexual relationships with two brothers. It must also be confusing to your child. So my advice is to end the relationship with both of them, and just co-parent your child with the father.
I think you need to let both guys go, and find someone that isn't part of that family. It sounds like a lot of drama, and I think you need to remove yourself from that whole situation because it sounds really complicated and messy and it shouldn't have to be...
I know it probably seems very easy for me to say, but heres what I think. The family issues are always going to be there which ever brother you are with, so you either realise that you and the other brother are really in love and work it out because if you really love each other it will work out. But if not then you need to leave that family behind, there is just too much baggage there. But dont forget the special times you had just be glad you had them.
You need to see a shrink.
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