I've been seriously committed to a girl for about 9 months now, she's the girl of my dreams and I can see myself spending the rest of my life with her. Now she has two children, I have none, but I am ready to take on the responsibility involved in help with her children.
However, that's not the problem. She is still living with and in a way committed to the father of her children. She assures me that she wants to get out and move in with me and that she does not want to be with him anymore from the way he treats her. We've talked about moving in together, she wants to, but constantly delays doing it.
She tells me her concern is not to rush things with me and also that she's afraid of the "routine" change, I personally feel that there is no better time than right now, because if two people are truly in love and meant to be it should last regardless of how quickly we move in together. I don't know what to think, if I'm being too impatient or if I'm just getting played for a fool.
I know she loves me, I just think she's too comfortable to make the leap. I don't want to leave her though, despite every better instinct, I'm truly crazy for her and can't see myself without her.
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It depends how things are going with her. I mean if her children are quite young you either want to move them now or wait until their older. I believe in chasing after your dreams and if you really love someone go for it!
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You and your 'girl of your dreams' seem like quite a great couple!
All the best and good luck.
I wouldn''t hurry trying to move in with someone.
Id say, enjoy your relationship staying apart! :)
and really, moving in has never been the most excitingpart of the relationship, if not to say the oppoiste. Like, do you really want to hear her snore next to you every night, etc?
So, whats the hurry ? :)
well for one, u shouldn't be messing with her if she is involved with anyone else period. and for another thing, she has her kids to think about which tells me explicitly that you are not ready for these kids, else you would have already realized that! you don't just do things in the NOW with kids. they come first. this whole thing is wrong and you'll find out before long. she doesn't love you like you think she does. mark my words and you'll see!
Where I'm from.. they call you a 'side thing'..
You are the other person in the relationship and she's stalling becuase she's not going to leave her husband.. she has children to think about in this relationship and I don't think she would sacrifice their lives to be sexually happy..
I know it might seem hard at the moment.. but you'll find someone who'll complete you and will be that girl of your dreams not her..
She's wrong for using you like that.. You need to love yourself more than that though.. why would you love someone who's sleeping with someone else.. Just a question, nothing personal.. put yourself first for right now..
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