, smart, employed....but cannot afford just yet for a comfortable home etc etc.
"Just yet" would be fine... If a man cannot afford a comfortable lifestyle JUST YET, but has the brains and the potential and the MOTIVATION to get there someday, that would certainly be an admirable quality for a life partner.
I never thought about money at all when picking my partner in life. I think it has to do with what kind of a person he is. We have been married now 25 years. And things got better with the money later in life. But we didn't have much when we were first married. And I'm glad about that now because now I know how it feels to appreciate things even more now when we have something. And it taught our kids also to be responsible with money. And they are today responsible with it. So it was not a big deal to me at all. It was the kind of person he was to me that mattered more then anything!!!!!! OH and by the way. He is VERY SMART!!!!!!!!!
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Education was really important to me, but money meant nothing. When I knew I wanted to marry my husband, I knew we were going to have a life that was really emotionally fulfilling, but I knew we'd never be wealthy: I'm an artist, and he's in ministry-but the rewards we get working with people are so incredible.
We both love reading and learning, and it's nice to be able to have thoughtful conversations....as far as money goes, we save up together and we do just fine. As long as we are both happy with our jobs, and love each other and our life together, the money is just details.
Well I married my husband for love, definitely not money because neither of us have much of it - but we both work full time and do the best we can. I always tease him that the next guy I marry, he's going to be rich!
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I think as we grow older we will become more financially secure, depending on how much you want to achieve
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you left out the most important part his age.....if hes in his 20s ok. if the dude is 40 than probalby will go no farther than he is right now
and also, what about you affording a comfortable home? why are you seekeing him to map out your future earnings? maybe you posed this wrong, but seems pretty materialistic to me.
Money comes and goes. His Education will always be there also never make a dicision on if they have money or not...if the love is there thats all that matters!!
Good luck!!
you know they say "all you need is love" that's great but in today's world things cost money. im not saying find a millionaire but find some one that's comfortable or at least someone that has goals. Its great to marry for love but poverty just drowns a person. your constantly working, no time for each other, tensed on trying to make ends meet its just really hard and discouraging because there isn't much of a relationship. But if he's really trying and has ambition then its something to hold onto its different if he was just a dreamer. Ladies…I Need Your Attention | FreshXpress.:.The PULSE of Young ::
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What's important is that he's financially stable, ambitious, hard-working, and makes good financial decisions - not the actual $$ figure that he makes. With the traits outlined above, one can always make more money and be able to live within one's means. There are people who have boatloads of money, but they blow it all on stupid stuff. It's not how much you have, it's how you use your resources - both intellectual and financial.
I think money is important - but not necessary. And when I say money, I mean just having enough to eat, sleep and occasionally go out. I couldn't deal with a man who didn't have a job and refused to work.
Education is important too - but again, not necessary. Education only shows that you're dedicated enough to stick to a four-year program, it's no indication whatsoever of intelligence or ability to make good money.
My husband and I got married just over a year ago. We both were sophmores in college and the day we tied the knot had about $800 dollars to our name. Neither of us had jobs. A year later we own a house, a rental property, a new car and we just had a baby. We are starting school again next semester! Alittle hard work goes along way!
I don't necessarily expect to be supported, but I wouldn't commit to a bum either. I want whomever I'm involved with to be capable of supporting themselves and meeting all of their obligations. I might think a little differently for young men, but men in my age group (40) should be able to support themselves and not doing so would show irresponsibility or lack of ambition. I do it, so I don't expect anything more than what I do myself.
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