Ok so I let a co-worker move in with my husband and I b/c she was living out of her car with her 9 month old baby! Well my husband I had started to argue and he went to stay with a friend of our's! Well one night after work he picked me up and she went with us to where he was staying to hang out for a lil while! well we got into it again and I left and she stayed ther! Well he had been drinkin and was pretty drunk b/4 I left! Well I found out that they had sex that night! She threw herself at him like it was nothing and he gave in! And come to find out he had really left the house to begin with was b/c of her! aparantly she had been hitting on him ever since she moved in with us! and he didn't tell me b/c I really don't have a lot of female friends and he didn't want to ruin my friendship! He thought that she would get the picture and leave him alone! Well obviously not and he gave into her in a drunkin stuper! I have since kicked her out of my house as well as my husband! this is why I don't have feamle friends b/c every time i do they stab me in the back! My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years and we have had our fair share of problems but he's usually very loving and caring to me! I just feel so hurt and so betrayed by him! We had been doing fine and getting our marriage back on track after a seperation and then this happens! He cries to me all the time and calls me b/c he jsut wants to hear my voice! I love him to death but I'm not sure if i can forgive him for this! What shoudl I do forgive him and let him come back home and work through this? Or should I jsut divorce him?
LMFAO!
I'm sorry but the exclamation marks are too funny!
If he has so much problem with drinking and arguing. Then perhaps the two of you need some marriage counseling before you get back together.
Alcohol consumption tends to cloud people's minds. And that might be the root of all your marriage problems. If your husband is an alcoholic. Then you won't be able to solve your marriage problems until he stops drinking.
I can only answer you from , my point of view.
But I know people in this situation still do as their emotions draw them to.
I say talk about it with him, be honest...both of you...But please so NOT lose respect for each other.
Some people come out & be honest and not respect the other person in their tone of voice & how they may say something.
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SO I suggest to talk it out.
But you may also need to clear things up with your co-worker.
I hope both she and your husband have apologised sincerely.
I know you may blame her, but as I see it, "it takes two hands to clap"
And what I mean is that....even if you may be attracted to someone, that is something we have no control over, what we do control is the choices we make.
ALthough she cam unto him while he was drunk, he was aware and could have still made the choice not to.
sounds like this marriage is falling apart. Dude... he cheated on you. I know its hard to let go but if i were you i would leave him already. Once a cheater always a cheater. While you guys don't have any kids right now. Leave him now before its gonna be harder later and be more drama. Listen THIS GUY CHEATED ON YOU. HE'S GONNA DO IT AGAIN. I guantee it. Leave him and move on. You will find somebody way better. If he really love you he wouldn't cheat on you.
oh man gosh one of the worst things is your husband or boyfriend cheating on you especially if there drunk. guy are just naturally stupid they should that once they get drunk they'll give in to there needs no matter what. i dont think you should go back to him. its just going to happen again down the road.
DIVORCE!! It takes two people to cheat I dont care how drunk you are. That whole he didnt tell you because he knew you didnt have very many female friends is a load of crap. When you love something you will do anything to protect it. Even if it ment someone loosing a friend. Covering it up and lying about it makes this whole thing sound not right. However if he has ever gotten really drunk and couldnt control his self and had sex with a man then I might excusse him LOL
It wasn't his fault, you let the other girl into his life in the first place.
What were your previous relationship problems? Was he cheating on you before? If he is prone to cheating, this recent mistake is not a good sign for things getting better, and I would suggest moving on if his cheating is something you can't live with. If he hasn't cheated before and you truly believe this happened only because he was so drunk and your "friend" threw herself at him, then you need to decide whether or not you can fully forgive him. If you can honestly completely forgive him, then do it and put this behind you and move on. If you aren't capable of completely forgiving him you will have resentment toward him and your relationship will suffer because of it. Are you sure that him going to his friend's house was because he wanted to get away from this woman? You said at the beginning of your explanation that the two of you had been arguing before he left. It would be pretty easy for him after he got caught to go back and say "oh, she was already coming onto me, that's why I left in the first place," even if that wasn't the case. Does the woman admit coming onto him or deny it? Does she strike you as someone who would come onto a married man? These are all things to think about. If you've already had your "fair share" of problems and a separation in only 2 1/2 years of marriage (when most people are barely out of the "honeymoon phase",) and you aren't sure you can forgive him, I think it might be time to cut your losses and move on. Ultimately it's about you and what makes you happy.
damn well i really think you should sit down with both of them and find out the story. definatly disown her but see what your husband has to say..
If you really love him and need him then forgive him
and let him come back
but dont let other women live with you.
Seems like he regrets it'i think u should let himcome back
but you said he was in a drunken stupor...so he wasn't really himself and if he moved out to preserve your friendship then I think he loves you more than you realize...this guy should move on and find a more trusting woman no offense.
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