He died on November 26, 2008 at 1 AM of Ewing Sarcoma. I remember that I called his dad's cell (the only phone number in the directory) and I left a very nice message saying something like "Hey man this is your friend, I want to wish you good luck to get through this cancer and I'm letting you know that I'm thinking of you, and if this is my last message before you die, I want to say farewell to you. I love you bro. Bye." But I did say my name and his name I just don't want to give it away on here. I left him a voice message either the night before he died or 2 nights before he died. I felt bad because I don't know if he ever got my message. I hope his dad said the message to him before he died. When the principle announced it, he was chocked up. I feel more moody than sad. Is this normal? And do you think that was the right thing to send him a nice message? What is the best way to commit suicide when you're under 13?::
20 posts - 15 authors - Last post: Nov 13, 2008The first time I almost committed suicide was stupid. It all really came into perspective when I was 14 and my grandfather passed away. thoughts is because someone close or a relative had committed suicide. . Living really does rock it's just all the silly extras we've created that
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It was a nice message but it would of been better if you went and saw him. Sorry to hear of your loss
Yes, even though I don't know you both, I'm glad you sent him that message. The greatest gift a dying person can have are friends and family who love them and will miss them when they have left this world. I'm sorry for your loss and it is normal to feel moody when someone close dies. Take it easy and whatever happens, your friend is in a better place now.
I think it was very nice and that it took courage and heart to send your friend the message. Many people don't know what to say to an ill person. My condolences on the loss of your friend. Everyone experiences feelings of grief in his or her own way. Whether or not your friend actually received the message, it sounds as though you were a good friend to him, so I'm sure he felt your support. The Damn Question - When do you stop grieving a loved one?::
Jan 27, 2009 You are so wise to realize that you really did have a blessed relationship . I just told a story to a friend of mine who got married just months He was the most honest and noble man I ever knew. . I basically would like to say .he was the first close person in my life that passed away.
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He fought hard and did really well until October of that year. whyquit.com website because of a friend of mine who quit almost 11 months ago. My dad passed away April 2, 2009. He smoked 2 ½ packs a day most of his life. . The sad thing is someone my age has no excuses. I knew the first time I lit up it
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Everybody handles death differently. I'd say you're reacting normally. And I think it was definitely the right thing to do.
the message was a great idea and im very sorry for your lost and i truly understand you i lost my boyfriend three months ago and losing somebody you love and appreciate is the worst thing that could ever happen. and it is normal to be moody instead of sad that often happens to me everything bothers me just remember that everything happens for a reason and i am sure your friend got the message
Man I'm really sorry for the loss of your friend. It was definitely the right thing to do leaving the voicemail. Don't doubt anything you do/say that is from the heart. And what you're going through is completely normal, it's the grieving process. You may experience sadness, anger and you will have highs and lows from this experience. I hope your school rallies around his family it might help you remember him and grieve. Good luck to you! =D
I am so sorry for your loss. Your emotions are right on. You'll go thru several before all is said and done. Yes, you did the right thing by leaving a nice message.
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